Single During 20s
So everyone’s dating and seems to be having a fun time with their girlfriends/boyfriends and here you are feeling low! You don’t have to be! It’s not a big deal if you are single during 20s or most of the 20s. It would seem like a relationship is the “be all and end all” during the 20s, but it’s not. We are usually expected to have our shit together during our 20s; we are here to tell you why you must not. So independent of how anyone out here feels about his/her relationship status in the 20s, we tell you why it’s okay, rather cooler, to be single.
1It’s easier to chase your dreams!
Most of us are at our creative best in our 20s. You don’t have to let go any of what you want to achieve or “make adjustments”! That’s a big plus!
2You are young!
Too young! Contrary to what the world might say, 20s are not the years when you have to or need to decide on with whom you need to spend the rest of your life with; come on!
3It’s the time to experiment
It’s the time to explore and learn after falling down. It’s the time to discover your abilities and what you are capable of doing. With all that happening, how does it matter if you are single?
4Learning to be Independent
If you are the urban guy/girl, most of us move out looking for jobs/further education and by god’s grace we don’t need to look after our families (in most cases). Therefore, we get to live by ourselves. And most of us know how the monthly budget goes for a toss when we are dating. Being single isn’t bad after all!
5Love requires patience
20s and patience don’t match by the way!
6You aren’t ready (in most cases)
Commitment can happen only when you feel financially stable. That either happens in your late 20s or early 30s, it is better if that is settled before you are ready for a serious relationship.
7Quarter life crisis
This happens to most of us. We end up feeling too low and down. It’s the whole wanting to be young, but not too young kind of a phase. How can you commit to something as serious as Love during this phase?
8You are losing people
Once upon a time you thought these people will always stay thick by you. Now, the dynamics have changed and they are moving on. You are coming to terms with this reality now. This happens with “love” too. Much of how we define love in our 20s is not what love is like.
9It’s all a happy mess
Life is a happy mess currently and there is a lot to explore, delete, keep and sort out. You want to be in ten places at once.
10You have a lot to prove
To yourself, your critics and may be even your parents; there is a lot you need to prove.
So if you are fretting over being single during 20s; this could help you!